Nine of Wands
Runaway fire-power often gets unmanageable. You have experienced the damaging force of words that were spoken out of unguarded emotions. You have also experienced what it’s like to wrong others, and acutely maximize the mood. Nine of Wands is an invitation to heal the wounds, so you can turn the power of thoughts and words into something that changes your perspective, then nurtures gentleness, and brings forth forgiveness. You do not have to run away from the situation, rather you would have to practice peaceful communication, understanding that is beyond your strength, and accepting that perspectives often differ. And it does not matter who did what, the only thing that matters is that your relationships heal and become whole again.