King of Cups
One of the answers for continuing to consciously create your present situation, is to develop your inner masculine energies. Either you yourself are a man, or you are a woman who is trying to attract a more favourable masculine ideal next to her (not exclusively in a partnership), you need to observe those men (masculine energies) who tend to others with the needed gentleness, devotion, loyalty and brilliant complaisance. This quality can exist in a stable way when it draws from intuitive sources, and follows its perceptions from a wholehearted instinctive, not a defined method. What benefits can it give you if your masculine side is strengthened with these attributes within your being?